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Rid · Tue Feb 13, 2007 4:39 am Love or simply... F U N???

wats love???well wen i say 'i love u' to some gurl it means only : I am just L ooking O ver V aginal E ntry...take off ur U nderwear!!lolz!but for some, love is smefin else!! dats : missing smebody, thinking dat he/she is the ONE, or i duno!!i dnt know wats love!i dnt wana know and ill never know coz i know its just some piece of s**t or sme belief dat peolple have in their mind!!

Now, for u people whos in coll or uni....r u gona 'fall in love'!!thinking dat ur guy/girl is the only ONE?? naaaaaah...plz dnt!!!life is meant to be lived and have FUN!! just dnt stick urself to sme1 just bcoz u missin him/her or that he/she promised u things!!bjust live ur life to the max!!dnt take realtionships seriously at this young age...have F U N!!!!!we've got only one life...so...do live it like u should!!! am doing it!! :p

Aniisah · Tue Feb 13, 2007 3:52 pm LOVE N FUN

Hey you! I completely disagree with your point of view on love!!!! huhhhhhhhhh!!! you may very well do not trust the feeling, but u shudnt encourage others to act as u!!
You are just plain unlucky if you havent experienced anythg near love yet!!! but dnt u wry! u'll be bugged too! if not today, if not in ten years...but someday!!!!

And let me tell you, itz the greatest feeling ever. :D lollllllllll love is a mixture of emotions, all wrapped together....itz the one feeling tht can make and break a man!!!

There are many ways to have fun, Mr Rid. It doesnt mean tht when i have a bf or if u have a gf, we cant have F U N!!! U n ur gf can have fun together and apart as well.... being in love doesnt mean you have to stick with tht one person 24hrs a day!! thtz shit! my bf can have his fun time fooling around with the guys or family....and i can go out shopping with the girls or be with my own family!!

But to say "I love you" to someone and not mean it, is so damn cruel!! to say it just for F U N is so inhumane!! if u dnt want anythg to do with love, be honest and upfront abt it! tell tht person u happen to be interested in tht u r here jst for a while...dnt make fake promises! thtz all....the other person shud have the ryt to choose...n u myt be surprised when the other person wants the same thg too! then u wnt have to worry when time to say goodbye approaches...since both of u knew tht it was bound to happen :D so it is jst a matter of being intelligent and honest abt it...

and Rid, we do have only one life, itz general knowledge...lol...and itz a short life too....so if we do not take our relationships seriously at this young age, when will we do? when we are old and gray?
do we have the certainty tht we will reach our old n gray ages? live your life to the max, enjoy every moment, yes! but live it intelligently and knw wht u r dng!!! Else, you myt just wake up one day and realise tht ur life has passed u by...u have left no legacy...cause all u did was have F U N!!!

Well, Mr Cynic, thtz all from me....this is jst my personal opinion of course! Just take it or leave it...

Rid · Tue Feb 13, 2007 8:54 pm

1. i dnt trust the feeling and yea i am encouraging others to do so coz i know toooo many people whos suffered becoz of this piece of s**t, which is ur 'greatest feeling ever'.

2.u saying am 'unlucky' coz uve nt suffered yet. i dnt wish u to suffer. but if one day u do, ull say am very very very lucky.

3. ill b really happy to be 'bugged' in 10 years...u said it 10 years. coz by that time,i dnt believe ill b able to wrong and lie to those poor girls!!! :D pou fini vin vier, napli pou ena ca laforce zeness la!! :D n ill b fed up with it too. so y nt accept this 'greatest feeling ' of urs!! :p

4.'feeling of emotions' able to make and what??? BREAK a man???oh man, sorry, i dnt wana b broken at this young age!!!!hw am i gona spend the rest of my life if am broken????crying everyday??loosing weight etc???naaaaaaah!!!!

5.yea, of course u can have fun wen having a bf or gf!! i do have looooaaaadddds of fun wen being together and apart as well!!!!i have more fun wen we r apart though!!well....its just wen am with another girl!! :p but wen being in love, ull b txting, talking, n spending time with him/her ONLY...dats really boring 's**t at this young age!!!! :S there r sooo many beautiful n sexy people out there...y stick to only one???just work hard to know all of em!! :D

6.well, ive already said wat i mean wen i say 'i love u'!! :D well its cruel but thats the way!! but nah, its nt always the case. but i try my best nt to say it. but smetimes u do have to fool em!!forms prt of the work baby!! cant do anything abt it!! if u tell sme1 its just 4 a while, work's gona b very very difficult!!yea, the other pserson might want the same too...n thats just tooo good!!ease ur task!! :p n smetimes, u know, u just too lazy...so y bother??just let things go on and have wat???yea....F U N!!

7.And yea, if we dnt enjoy this one life of urs NOW at this young age, do things dat we wnt be able to do in 10 yrs, have fun, know lots of people, be free to live, without any committment, any promise, any piece of s**t....wen r we gona do it?? wen we r 'old and gray'????

8do we have the certainty tht we will reach our old n gray ages? live your life to the max, enjoy every moment, yes! but live it intelligently....just dnt stick urself to some1!!

9.Else you might just wake up one day and realise that ur life passed u by....cause all u did was to stick to someone believing that he'she is the only one out there!!

10.and yea, r u a judge or smefin?? am nt a cynic. its as us said, its jst my personal opinion....either u take it or just leave it!!

Aniisah · Wed Feb 14, 2007 12:54 am

huh! you are a confirmed cynic!!! didnt mean to judge u! sry! but thtz the impression u give... everyone is allowed to have an opinion on someone else... doesnt necessarily have anythg to do with judging... am not asking u to stop thinking tht way... i jst dnt happen to agree with u!!!

1. I'll keep saying tht LOVE is the greatest feeling ever! Those ppl who have suffered will love again. In most cases, they r the ones to love more. When u lose somethg and then get it back, u tend to work harder to keep it, isnt it? koz u knw the value of it. Failure is part of life as well. You jst got to take it in ur stride. You fall, u crash n burn, pick urself up and TRY again! dont encourage ppl to stop looking for love! Let them choose! itz their lives anyway!

2. love isnt equal to suffering!! y do u keep on with this??? when u fall in love, it doesnt ultimately mean tht u'll suffer!! hmmm, has it happened to u? is tht y u have such a muddy view of love? Someone whoz in love is lucky! Some ppl spend their whole life looking for tht one person who makes them feel different!!! they move from partner to partner jst to find tht one rare gem...is tht wht u r dng? hiding behind the word F U N n still looking for H E R? :P

3. I didnt say u'd be bugged in 10 years! I have no way of knwing when it'll happ to u! wht i said was: "if not today, if not in ten years...but someday!!!!" the operative word being "someday". why do u have to "wrong and lie to those poor girls" NOW? Do i have to understand tht it is F U N to lie and wrong a person? coz yeah, those POOR girls are human beings too...u hurt their feelings and thtz fun?
So ok, if God blesses u with a "long" life, in ur old days u'll settle down? haha, who wud want someone like u then? u'll be known to be someone who jst has fun...who just passes by... i dnt wish it but women, no matter wht their age, will avoid having a love relationship with u...koz old ppl look for stability...have ppl on whom they can rely around them... wht wud a young lady do with a man who "napli pou ena ca laforce zeness la!!" uh? maybe if u r rich....lollllllll....but then too, she jst myt have affairs elsewhere! :P

4. Again, i didnt say love is a "feeling of emotions". It is a mixture of emotions...good emotions and bad ones...life isnt painted in jst black and white...u have different shades of gray and bryt colours too! u've got to live it all! to "make and break" is an expression! u dnt knw wht it means? Pick urself a dictionary! :P whtz loosing weight got to do here? losing weight and keeping fit is part of staying healthy!!! You think when u r fat and unhealthy, u'll have ur F U N??? haha!!!

5. Ur fifth point is completely stupid! have u read it after typing it down? "i have more fun wen we r apart though!!well....its just wen am with another girl!!" Why do u have to have gfS at one go? one doesnt do? even if jst to have F U N?
If u r mature in ur relationships my dear, you'll not be "txting, talking, n spending time with him/her ONLY"...i agree fully with u tht itz boring...mega boring...u jst have to knw how to manage the relationship...be wise...give each other space too....let me remind u tht it is at this young age tht u develop ur personality and pave the way to ur adult life...
so ppl are jst "beautiful and sexy" to u? to be blunt, some ppl jst aint sexy or beautiful(well, here it depends on the meaning u hold of beautiful n sexy...but im focusing of physical attributes...koz if all u want is fun, im assuming tht physical traits are wht attract u...), wht do u do abt these ppl? u dnt give them a second glance? ppfftt!!! Ppl are SENTIENT beings...they have feelings, in other words...not objects u have on display...everyone has their qualities and faults. Work hard to knw tht one person who makes a difference to u....dnt lose ur time and energy knwing many who jst drift thru ur life meaninglessly...

6. Oooof!! Fooling ppl is F U N? "Forms part of the work?" is work= thgs u have to do to have fun?
lazy is enjoying life?

7. you can enjoy ur life all thru...not jst now and after...when u r in love, cant u knw many ppl? or knwing many ppl means "bedding many ppl" to u? when u r in love, aint u free to live? who told u tht? Commitments and promises are jst choices we make...it may happen at any stage of our life...

8. life is short...but even in this short span of time, u come across many ppl...jst dont be greedy, grabbing evrythg u can at one go to finally not have anythg at the end...

9. ur life will pass u by if u dnt get anythg meaningful from it...sticking to someone who u BELIEVE is the only one is worth it...coz to have reached tht belief, tht person mst have made u feel good, feel lively and happy with him/her. happiness is fun too, isnt it? ;)

10. sry to have said u r a cynic...i dnt knw u...itz jst an opinion i got from when i read u...personal opinion...m not judging....u want to b a cynic, thtz ur choice...but somewhere somehow i am ryt...u r a cynic...:P u aint opening urself up to possibilities...u aint risking.... I'd rather live all the emotions life has to offer...love, hatred, happiness, sadness, compassion, etc...than jst to have F U N and being carefree! u've got to experience it all...live it all....then u can say u've LIVED...then u can say, "yeah i knw wht sadness is like..." "yeah i knw wht happiness is..." simply because u've gone thru it.

Living ur life jst having F U N is no F U N at all....It'll get boring....

Wish u all the love in the World! :D

( i wnt say happy st-valentine's day....koz itz stupid...however, the atmosphere ppl create, flowers everywhere, nice music playing, well, itz F U N...haha...enjoy the Day!!! )

Rid · Wed Feb 14, 2007 8:06 am

1. ill keep saying that love is just a piece of s**t! those who suffered r no fools to go n love again. ki ca imbecile ki pu rer envi souffert la???silly!! ok, ull work harder to keep it....y the hell do u have to work 'hard'??is this to have F U N??not at all!! u try again . ok. wat if it crashes agin?? then?? ull suffer even more n life's gona b awful!! :S its nt a time to look for love at this period of time...n ill continue to encourage people nt to do it now.

2. i didny say that love = suffering. but it can happen. people do suffer wen their relationship doesnt work. u must agree with me on this one. so y risk it now wen life smiles at u?? y risk it wen u dnt ned it now??y suffer now??y dnt u just take things easily??n yea, it didnt happen to me coz i just dnt want it to happen!! chaque chose a son temps. n its definitely not now. i do move from partner to partner but not to find wau u call 'rare gem'. i do it coz i just want to live my life to the maximum. and i dnt wana lose time in searching for 'sme1'. dats ridiculous!!!

3. am saying in 10 yrs. yea, its real fun to lie n wrong em!!!thats the 'greatest feeling ever'!! :D well...its nt my intention to hurt feelings, but wat do i do if they r hurt wen am just trying to have some fun??they just cn do the same...dnt take things seriously and have fun!!am definitely not accountable for their suffering. there will be at leat one person who'll want sme1 like me in my old days. dats for sure. n even if theres noone...ill continue having F U N!! :D wheres the prob???

4. ok...love is a mixture. of what?? --- > gd emotions and and and wat?? BAD emotions!! :-( y the hell do u want somefin bad in ur life??? nah i didnt know the epression. u shud have said .. 'hey, dats an expression' and xplain wat it means. i read its 'literal meaning' :'itz the one feeling tht can make and break a man' . to make means to cause somefin to happen, to do smefin, etc...do u know the meaning of 'break'??well dnt bother to pick up a dictionary. ill xplain ...'to break' means to damage, to end, to finish... . Wen ull b heart broken (i dnt wish it) , ull know the real meaning of ur xpression. wen some1 is broken, heart broken, he/she usually doest live life like he/she used to. n ur point on loosing weight is stupid. u didnt get me. go n read on it again n try to understand. fo savoir lire entre les lignes.

5. Its lot more fun and interesting wen u have more people who want to have fun with u at a go!!oh now to have a relationship u have to 'be mature, know hw to manage ( p vin manager tou astere), must be wise etc'!!why complicate things at such a young age?? well u can as well pave ur wy to adult life while having loaaadsss of fun!!and this way, its gona be really more interesting!!ull know more abt life!!ur personality will be far more developed as well.
r u nt attracted by physical attribures??i dnt think theres ny1 there whos nt attracted by physical traits!!people are sentient...they have feelings.i agree. they just have to control thier feelings my dear.
'Work hard to knw tht one person who makes a difference to u...' haha!!as if i dnt have anything else to do!! bullshit!!. hey people, just dnt lose ur time searching for the one!!! enjoy ur life!live it!dnt lose it!!

6. so, if im right, work for u is not equal to fun. 'Work hard to knw tht one person who makes a difference to u....'. so its no fun at all to get to knw that person!!coz ull have to work hard!!! contracdiction...it happens!!
i never said lazy is to have fun. oh god, y cant u understand at one go??li entre les lignes!!fouff!!
'n smetimes, u know, u just too lazy...so y bother??just let things go on and have wat???yea....F U N!!'. did i say lazy=fun?? i nah, i just said sometimes u just too lazy to go n xplain to some1 that ull b here for a while only. dats all.

7. wat u can do now, u wnt be able to do it after. did i talk abt 'bedding many people'??i dnt think so!!control ur mind...its being perverted!!:D agai, u didnt understand and u replied stupidly!!well..it happens...pa kass tet toi!!my point is that u must not stick to one prson at this young age....go n discover other things...go n xplore other 'things'... i didnt say u nt free to live wen being in love. its just that wen u in love...its wit one person only. n y sticking to that one person wen u can meet n have fun with many others??yea, commitments and promises are choices u make wen u r in love...u have to live by those promises...bein commited at this young age!!yaak!!!

8. 'life is short...but even in this short span of time, u come across many ppl...jst dont be greedy, grabbing evrythg u can at one go to finally not have anythg at the end... '
dats y am grabbing the maximum!! i wnt bother if i dnt have anything at the end!! i prefer grabbing as much as i can now n have nothing at the end than to grab only one now...n see the same face at the end!!! :D

9. 'ur life will pass u by if u dnt get anythg meaningful from it'. i agree with u. dats y i say, jst dnt stick to only one person!! n wat if that belief turns out to be wrong??and that person is not the one?? better have fun than to believe things!! ooh n yea, every gd lookin girl out ere makes me feel good, lively and happy!! right, happiness is fun!definitely!!

10. if am a cynic... then i believe u r mad!! who the hell will want to experience sadness??who the hell will want to say smeday 'i know wats sadness is coz ive gone thru it'??u mad!!who the hell will like being hated??who the hell will want to take the risk of being heart broken?? why risk it wen u can just avoid it and live happily and HAVE FUN?'
'Living ur life jst having F U N is no F U N at all....It'll get boring.... ' I think u just like it to contadict urself. hey Miss.Mad, if am having fun in my life, hw can it be boring??? maybe to experience sadness is fun for you!! but definitely not for me!!

11. wish u all the fun in the world!! n yea, happy valentine's day!! i bet u like this day!! :D

Aniisah · Wed Feb 14, 2007 1:57 pm i rest my case

Hmm, there is absolutely nothg i'd like to say!!! u missed all points completely...in the pursuit of "disagreeing" with me!!! lolllllll Well, it was F U N to have had tht discussion with u....

now u live ur life as u see fit :D and i'll live mine....... We'll see in the end, whoz ryt!!! :P

yeah, i had a great time toD.... :P

ud · Wed Feb 14, 2007 4:28 pm

Thx for both of u giving 2 different opinions about love.

People give their opinions. Other people agree disagree swear bater or even might fall in love with each other LOL

That's called a forum.

Well I personally believe that Love is one of those things which you need to experience by yourself and then STFU. Don't even mention it to someone or seek advice. Sort things out yourself coz things might get worse if other ppl are involved or seek their advice.

Life can be shyte but some ppl live for love which might mean love is shyte.

c 1 penser st valentin de ma part

Aniisah · Thu Feb 15, 2007 1:02 pm uh huh!!!

LOVE ISNT SHYTE!!!!! ppppfffftttttttt!!!!!!

samsam · Thu Feb 15, 2007 5:03 pm

someone RIGHTLY told me :love is a creation of man!!hehe!! isnt it ridwaan??!! :lol:

Aniisah · Thu Feb 15, 2007 6:17 pm what??????????

Love is the name given by Man to describe strong feelings of affection towards someone. Where do these feelings come from? U may tell me they originate in the brain. scientifically speaking, u r ryt...so ur brain creates them...wht pushes ur brain to create these feelings??? wht r the impulses rather? for man to create somethg, there has to be a need for it, ryt?

so whatz the need for love?
Why did Man create love? Is the Human Race so stupid to create a feeling tht is being coined as shit?
I dnt thnk so... i still have faith in my own race...

Love is there for a reason...

Sad thg is tht some ppl have closed their minds on it.... Some are obsessed with it....
Donc ils ne font ke passer a koT... <sigh>

Rid · Thu Feb 15, 2007 9:20 pm Lol!!

absolutely right samsam !!n ud's right also...its SHYTE!!lol!! :d anissah....just rest ur case!! to tro guet film indien toi...ca em to prob!! haha!! :D :D :p

Meenketan · Fri Feb 16, 2007 2:03 am yeah

Different people have their own views on love either is an important part of life or a real shyte!!!!Frankly speaking according to me, love does no more holds its true value it used to have in the past decades..Now love is like something commercial that's to blackmail someone emotionally..In addition love now creates a lot havoc in the country such crimes..Specially triangular love story..Love on its own has different meanings..Personally i say love always causes pain...So it is a real shyte to love if ur feelings are not respected..Just enjoy life as it is and not to get entangled in the so called shyte word'love'....

Aniisah · Fri Feb 16, 2007 6:21 am huh!!!

Well m just shocked and sad to see ppl agreeing with u rid!!!
However, i still maintain love has itz purpose, it is beautiful and no shyte!!!!!
I'll maintain it for as long as i live...Even if m alone in this!!! I'd rather b alone tht be among cynics like u!!! :D

If u dnt want to open up ur minds and find itz real meaning, therz absolutely nothg i can do!!! Even a million words wont do....Just have ur F U N!! but someday, u'll realise wht i've been trying to say here!!! Mark my wrds!!!

Meenketan, if someone blackmails someone else using love, tht someone is purely sick!!! Sick ppl exist! They jst do not knw the meaning of love...

Love doesnt create havocs!!! Crimes are committed by stupid ppl! Triangular love stories wouldnt even exist if those involved knew the real meaning of loving someone.....

So, bottom line, i'd say tht u guys havent grasped the meaning yet.... u've got to go deep instead of analysing this whole topic on the surface.... For each one of u, it will differ... Value the difference peeps!!!

I feel proud m not like one of u.... I've found love, I'm cherishing every moment of it...the ups and downs!!! Koz thtz life.... AND I'M LIVING!!!!!!!!!!!

Rid · Sat Feb 17, 2007 10:54 pm

Ull stop living the day he leaves u and hurts u!! (i really reallt dnt wish it)!!

ud · Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:18 am

Hmm tro brite sa Rid

Anyways what people do here when these things happen is that they write autobiographies or make documentaries about themselves and make a lot of money!

Love can be a business as well.

Dunno if it might work in MU.