Love or simply... F U N???

wai li brit mais c la veriter. mais astere pa lir li dan son sens literal. li pa pou mort li!! but sme1 who is heartbroken will definitely NOT living his/her life as before!!....memories will haunt him'her day n night!! hell's gonna b lot better!! [/i]

I'd rather be haunted by memories of love than live a meaningless life...atleast i have memories of good moments....i'll LIVE by tht!! but wht do u have? only FUN? haha!!!

memories last forever...but does FUN? i dnt thnk so. Smile

And Ud, love is love. business is business...a love tht can be a business was never love to start with...ppfftt!!! and besides, everyone has their own way of dealing with their hurt....if writing autobiographies or making documentaries is wht does it for them, we shouldnt be judging them...itz their lives, their history...they do with it wht they want.

"A heart can be broken; but it keeps beating just the same."

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When everything is made to be broken, I just want you to know you I am....

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Poor Ridwaan Rolling Eyes

, if someday you have kids and if there is a little girl or more among them, I hope you will be able to believe that every guys are not like you because you won't be able to sleep anymore otherwise...Unfortunately, you will be sure, and you will be right, that some of them definitely are like you and....you won't be able to sleep anyway! ! hehe
So sleep well my dear while you still can do it, have F U N and take care.
muuuaaaaah!

~ Naa ~

now wat Fan No1??? we talking abt love and having fun but u talking abt having kids. u shud have started another topic which has as title ...hmmm ... 'Marriage & Kids'!! but nyways, dats alright. am still 20...still studying...nt yet started to work...hw the hell can u go that far in saying that smeday ill b having kids?? am nt even sure ill get married smeday!! so...generalise pa tn k!!n i think its u whos worried abt not being able to sleep wen u have kids...specially a little girl!! al compran!!

my dear aniisah. u said ull rather be haunted by memories and that ull b enjoying the gd ones!!i understand u.uve nt xperienced it yet(i dnt wish u to) and dats wat u think ull b able to do. but the fact is that the gd memories will haunt u even more...n wnt let u live ur life!!

hehe rid, gtin affectionate with me now uh?....i've become ur "dear" alrdy? lolllllllll Jst kidding ofcourse...

i thnk u've missed Fan_No1's point! deliberately or not, tht i cnt tell. she meant tht someone who thnks like u myt hurt one of ur own someday....assuming u r gting married and having a little baby girl....someone is bound to jst have FUN with her and breaks her heart...cause it is absolutely clear tht it is mostly guys who thnk like u do...so, hw would tht make u feel? someone taking ur child as somethg jst to have FUN with? hmm, guess u r gng to teach ur daughter the art of having FUN...
Well, it doesnt necessarily have to be ur daughter...it could be ur sister(if u have one), a cousin, anyone u do consider important to u...

and Rid my dear(lol), stop comparing ppl to u! 'ne generalise pas ton k'....Good memories are wht make ppl go on in life....they help dring hard times....they make u believe tht therez sunshine after the rain...
hmmm "uve nt experienced it yet"?i havent experienced it quite tht way....
but have u? u r speaking as if u have...
hmmm, so i was damn ryt from the start...u've been in love before..and it has turned out bad for u...and now u have closed ur heart uh...i kind of understnd better now....ive been feeling the anger in ur words... Smile

but u'll find love again, dnt u worry!!! or love will find u...jst stop being so bitter....
Start treating ppl with the respect they deserve...girls too....we r part of the human race, despite the many faults we have...

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u both irrelevant!! wat will happen if i have a daughter n so on is completely out of subject!! i even dnt know how to make a baby n u telling me wat if ill b a father of a girl!! do u both know hw it feels to b a mother?? not yet!! n u wnt know till u become one!! n its the same for me : i will know wat it is to b a father of a girl wen i become one!! n not wen am still doing my 1st yr of uni studies and enjoying life to the maximum!!not wen dad is still giving me money!! not wen mum is still cooking my food!!

well...its not my fault if u firmly believe ive ever been in love before!! but u completely wrong! its gt some logic , see for urself : if ever ive been in love before n it turned out to be bad...wudnt i have said it long before?? wudnt it have been a really strong point against u in this forum?? silly!! revision p tir tou seki ena dan latet?? assignment p manze coco?? k v jo!! met seryer do!!

Rid, u r a cynic to the core!! lol....
we didnt tell u to go n become a father to knw wht it wud be like to have ur daughter gting hurt....but see, i kind of think u r n intelligent guy, so just IMAGINE wht it wud be lke...u've got some imagination ryt? Mad

or assignment n coursewrk p manz tou? :S

Tht part of the discussion is completely relevant...koz we r talkin abt the way u treat girls here....
u went out of sub when u mention abt us becoming mothers n bla bla...it doesnt fit in...

and as for u being in love, i was jst playng amateur psycho...sometimes m good at it sometimes m not...loll.....but again, that amateur psycho la te di, dapres ur reply, tht she was ryt! u keep proving it by being so damn vehement in ur replies...lol...
well, thtz ur personal life. i dnt really wanna knw abt it...(except if u want to talk abt it)...i am jst pestering u, ruffling ur feathers...lolllllll.....

i am such a LOVEly person...n u such a FUNny one Wink

let love lead the way...

PS: "ka v jo...met seryer do..." to p vine poet...n bon sign sa...la li pa romantik...mais biento...
"love...my dove" Wink

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I woke up a bit confused this morning ( and that is a rare thing...I always wake up with a smile Smile

)
So imagine my state...and exams are near...maybe the stress is getting to my head...
But I have questions bugging me. A kind of scenario has popped up in my mind.
I better start from the beginning.
The situation is as follows:

There is this girl. She has a boyfriend who is not in the same country as she is. Give and take a few months, they have been together for almost a year. Of course, many people have come her way to tell her that since the guy is in another country, he may not be sincere and stuff. Let's suppose again that the girl trusts her boyfriend. Flirting is only natural. She does it too. She believes in his love and she loves him fiercely too. Wink

Remember that we do not have an ordinary couple here. Theirs is a long distance relationship. But they have their share of fights and stuff...they are living love, both good and bad sides. (....lol..Rid...)

Now...A fateful day, letz call it...

Someone close to her, and close to him too, gets on the scene. (suppose his name is MrM). This fact, that Mr M knows both of them, was not known to our couple.
But now she knows...since MrM wants to set some things clear. MrM's credibility is undeniable...he's super genuine...all in all, he can be trusted. and MrM is happily married, with a cute little daughter, uh...)

Mr M announces to our girl that her boyfriend is with some another girl and that he is just playing around with her. The Bf even has a picture of this girl (letz name her, uh...Miss N...). Miss N is in France actually. (our guy has a certain something for long distance affections...haha...) Miss N and Our guy always call each other...she sends him cards and stuff...

Hmm, our guy once told our girl that he does not know his own address.
He thinks he has fooled our girl...but since our girl doesnt care too much about it, she didnt carry on with it...she can get the address on her own if she wished.
Haha...but hey now she is hearing this...so the guy definitely lied...

Hmm, back to our guy and Miss N...Mr M knows they both fancy each other...our guy even speaks about it in his surroundings...

our girl knows all of this now. even though she thinks Mr M is worth trusting, she is hesitating! Poor her uh?
She has believed herself in love...she had the greatest feeling ever...
she doesnt want to let go of that...
It human nature to want to hold on to the good things in life...

What is to happen after that, I do not know...

My questions are simply this:
(1) Do you find the scenario above funny?

(2) If yes, explain to me what is fun in saying "i love U" and not mean it?

(3) Why do guys feel the need to have many girls at once? Cause if a guy's infatuation with a
particular girl is definitely over, why doesnt he say it? Why does he keep dragging her along?

(4) Why cant girls have the same kind of fun? have many boyfriends at the same time?
Cause if she does that, guys say li ene nimporte, n saloppe, n P , a no good girl...

(5) Bfs can lay down their rules..."dont do this, dont do tht," but he can do this and that...
but when we girls lay some of our own rules..."huh, i am leaving U"...
What the hell is wrong with Guys?!

(6) How does a girl really know if her man loves her? Cause i still believe guys are capable of love too...
And i wanna know, how the heck does that show?

(7) And my last question is this: How can someone not know his/her own address?! Thatz so F****** stupid!

Hmm, hope someone can enlighten me here...these questions are bugging me to no end...Oooof!
And bear in mind that the above is just a scenario... Wink

hope i am a good story teller... Razz

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I wud b really happy to give u the answers but u must first tell us if this is YOUR personal story and if U R being hurt! Very Happy

Ow come on!!!
LOL
You dont expect me to tell U tht!!! LOL!!

Na seriously....it is twisted...i mean real twisted version of the real story... Rolling Eyes

I havent decided if our girl is suffering or not...maybe confused and angry...

And stop focusing this on me... Grrr... Evil or Very Mad

Cnt i jst have the answers puhleeez? Embarassed

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The way u wrote, the way u xpressed urself, the words u used, bring us to the only conclusion : that u r telling ur very own story! c'mon tell us...dont b afraid...there r many like u...suffering...being hurt...crying out their heart...coz of some human being in this world...theres no point in hiding it....we will try to help u out...c'mon....b strong....ill help u out....n lead u bak on track....help u bring bak F U N in ur L I F E....cheer up!! Very Happy

When I decided to post my story here, I knew many would assume it is mine...What I am going through!!! tsssk tsssk!!! But still i posted it...

Oh well, it is my story but there are bits and pieces which ain't true at all!!! Say for example, MrM...
And other bits and pieces are absolutely true....like the address part!!! Exclamation

The guy works you know....And I wonder what address he provided his employers! Ppfftt!!!

And u r wrong to say i am hurt....i am not. I am just so FUCKING ANGRY AND CONFUSED!!!! I am not suffering! haha! No way!

I am still on track...lol....Everythg is going on smoothly in my life....except for this part...else my life would have been perfect! Too perfect....haha Wink

I have my family and friends, I am OK! I swear! My bf(or so-so...) is very special and important to me...I do not want to lose that....

But i need the answers to my questions!!! If I can atleast get that, my mind would be at peace. LOL
If your answers do not rouse more questions tht is.... Wink

Hope you are satisfied now Rid...

And btw, I still maintain that love is the greatest feeling ever! Smile

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They say that hate and love are two sides of the same coin...Is that true? ooooof!!!

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When everything is made to be broken, I just want you to know you I am....

Aniisah Smile